The Easy Way to Tour South America Lazy dad, hyper mum, four kids (one in nappies) tour South America for 6 months

The Easy Way to Tour South America

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Paola walks Machu Picchu
All this is mine..

All this is mine..

As though the Inca Trek were not challenging enough. Sallkantay is the walk for the hardcore. But even that wasn’t enough. Sallkantay only gets you as far as Machu Picchu itself. No, if you really want to join the nutters, you go ABOVE the lost city of the Incas and walk to Huayna Picchu, which gives you spectacular views over Machu Picchu. While I was relaxing in the company of my children in the resplendent facilities of the Hostal Magico in Cusco, Paola walked this mad trek with Anne-Marie. Here are some photos – Paola may provide words when the muse strikes…

Some photos? 107 to be exact. Extract from conversation:

“Is that too many? I don’t think you put enough photos up.”

3 Responses to Paola walks Machu Picchu

  1. Syra Portillo says:

    Impresionante Mirentxu! que maravilla, eso si que es tocar las nubes!!! nunca deja de sorprenderme tu valentia y energia! Orgullo de amiga!! Te quiero mucho! keep safe xx

  2. REBECA says:

    Hola Paola!
    Way to go, girl!! Os echo de menos y me acuerdo muchísimo de vosotros todos los días. Fue un regalo conoceros y tener la oportunidad de disfrutar unos días contigo y con tu familia.

    Con todo el amor,
    Rebeca

  3. Marimar says:

    Ole la Mare que te pario!! Peaso de viaje tia! Que chulo, me encanta el contraste de nieve y calor tropical. Y una curiosidad, pa mea y caga, eh????!!!

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Dreams and Visions from Cusco
Yuri at the school

Yuri at the school

It was the wonderful Anne-Marie’s birthday a few days back. She chose to spend it here in Cusco with us and flew over from Dublin. And so, on September 10, we went out with Anne-Marie, one of our oldest friends, with Yuri and Maia, two of our newest.

I love my friends for a variety of different reasons. You all have a particular place in a heart that I couldn’t conceive of being able to store so many people inside it. You are also the people who make extended travel the hardest, as you are the main part that I struggle to be without for this amount of time. I love some of you for your open hearts. Some for standing with me through turbulent times. Some for the experiences we have shared. For opportunities that you have opened up before me. For broadening and deepening my mind. For opening and sometimes hardening my heart when it was needed. For singing with me, for not laughing when dancing with me.

Some of you have been coming to mind recently as we have got to know Yuri here. The visionaries. People who want to change the world, or at least a part of it. I have been fortunate in my life to have met a few of you who can claim this as one of your traits. You plunge your arms into those dreams, grab them in your hands, and pull them right out and into reality. Tony, you scarcely have time to wake up before your dreams are thrust into the real world. Matt, you have a way of painting visions with friends and clients alike that takes them out of reality and into your dreams before diving back out and collectively making them happen. Ben, you took one of yours and in realising it made a difference to an unimaginable amount of people who needed you for them to make a difference. Gareth, you and I shared so many together since university days. Baz, you and I created and lived a great one for a while – happy days. Cyrus, I scarcely know vision from reality with you, the two are so seamlessly intertwined as one fabulously becomes the other. Kev, you decided a long time ago that the reality that was painted before most of us was just not good enough, and created your own better version on the island, which you’ve been living for over a decade now. Dorf and RT, you convinced a lot of us to create something with you and gave us space to unleash our own creativities and make something of immense beauty and success. The list could just go on. And that’s not even mentioning the vision I harboured for so many years, whom I finally married and showed me qualities in reality that were beyond mere dreams.

Well, here in Cusco, we are fortunate to be enmeshed and embedded within Yuri’s vision made reality. I wrote about the Aldea Yanapay school in an earlier post, and we are staying at the Hostal Magico, which along with the Aldea Yanapay restaurant, helps to fund that school. Like many who are from, or live in, or have travelled through Cusco, Yuri saw the abuse that afflicted many of her children. Like a smaller subset of those people, he also saw how that behaviour was cyclical and moved from one generation to the next. Like very few of those people, he had a vision of how that could be changed. And like the only visionaries that count, he decided to take action with the school he founded to try to change this. In a few days that we have been here, he has also become a friend to us and our family, including the children who have asked if he could come back and be our au pair!

Here are some pictures from the Aldea Yanapay of the children, the volunteers and Yuri.

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Which brings me back to the start. Yuri booked for us to eat in a restaurant, Chicha, that would not be out of place in St Martin’s Lane or Mayfair in London on the event of Anne-Marie’s birthday. The best food on this trip so far, and possibly from long while before we started. And great company with friendships formed that will last a long time after this particular journey has ended. A beautiful evening, thank you Anne-Marie for giving us the excuse, and then for sharing it with us.

On another evening here in Cusco, while Paola was trekking to Machu Picchu, we met our first travelling family. Patrice and Marie are travelling from Quebec with their two children. Estimated end of journey date unknown. They have a blog far more elegant than our own going, at moments of an open life. No surprise that Patrice is a video pro, and the two of them are videoing their journey with a goal to fund their travels as they go. Like us, most of their friends thought what they were going to do was insane, and like us they found that once you take the first step, it is remarkably achievable. Guys, if you read this, please feel free to drop us a comment. Especially if it’s to tell us when you will be coming to London to visit!

Coincidentally, one of my favourite films is also one of Patrice and Marie’s. In the docufilm Man on Wire, Philippe Petit is standing atop one of the twin towers about to undertake the seemingly impossible task of walking the tightrope which he has set to straddle the two skyscrapers. He has one foot on the building, and one on the wire. And he says that he simply decides  to shift his weight from one foot to the other. This seemingly innocuous decision begins one of the most audacious and beautiful acrobatic feats of the last 50 years.

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  1. the GyPsY says:

    Beautiful!
    Love to all

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There’s about as much to do as we’ve done so far
Just landed in La Isla del Sol

Just landed in La Isla del Sol

Today we are on day 92 of our 184 day trip. Landing in Mexico seems like a lifetime ago now, as I’m sure landing in the Isla del Sol in lake Titicaca will seem when we arrive in Gatwick on 3rd Jan 2012. But as the halfway point, a quick opportunity to reflect on how it’s gone so far.

I am astounded by how much we’ve managed to do, and how relatively straightforward it has been so far. A couple of years back, this trip would not have seemed realistic to us at all. Maybe it was because my expectations were that it would be so much harder. Maybe it was also because everyone was telling us that it would be so much harder. In fact, stand up and confess those of you who said we couldn’t do it. And that includes you two in the Twickenham Tandoori who laughed outright at the concept of us even thinking we might be able to do some volunteering with the family as we travelled. Well, we managed to do a week more than we planned to, and I know the work we did was worthwhile. And Sean, get to booking your Rio trip now!
We know a lot more about travelling with the family than we did before, and 2 week holiday jaunts will be less stressful with the six of us now. We thought the big kids would miss home, but surprisingly it has been the younger ones who miss it more. Our two year old did wake up at 6 am one morning screaming that he wants to go back to London. A rare occurrence, but one we hadn’t expected. But I am beginning to think that maybe this excursion will end up building some flexibility and openness in our youngest even if the memories of the trip itself fade. For the eldest two, I suspect any excuse to be out of school is good. And getting them doing schoolwork while they feel that they are on a holiday has been no small task
We have also learned that we do every so often yearn for familiarity, be that to see our friends and family (which no amount of chats on Facebook can replicate), or knowing that there is a hot bath and our own bed waiting for us at the end of the day. We stayed in a decent hotel once so far (two nights in the Hacienda in Puno), with a fantastic room for the 6 of us setting us back £36 per night. I was surprised at how much we loved having a decent bath and bed to go to. There has been no loss of curiosity or excitement about the next place and what that brings, but every so often we also would like one week at home to chill out and relax in a known environment. I hasten to add that what we haven’t yet missed is the routine that comes with that environment.
We have entered a new and transient community on this trip, the community of travellers. The constant is that we know most connections we strike up will be temporary, but some will make it to friendship which will outlast this trip. We are different from most that we’ve come across as the vast majority have been individuals, couples or groups of friends. That said, they have been far more welcoming of our brood than I expected, and many have gone out of their way to be with us or to lend a hand on occasion. It has been repeatedly sad to leave some newly made friends behind, especially in Cusco, even though we know we will stay in touch, and that we will be making newer ones along the way.
One aspect of travelling as a family that we weren’t expecting and that we love is the reaction of the locals. At worst, we’ve been a novelty that they strike up a conversation with. At best, and this needs to be taken with a pinch of salt and reflects how little people do get to know us, but I write it as a few people travelling and local have flattered us with it, “an inspiration”. In Cuba, as I previously noted, 4 children was enough to have us stopped by locals every few metres with exclamations of “cuatro!”. But just as much of a conversation piece has been our trusty double pram! Everyone peeks around expecting to see twins and some have asked to buy the pram. I was not in any way anticipating that the pram would be the centre of so many of our brief conversations. The sight of our small tribe has been enough to bring a smile to many and spark up a very warm and friendly conversation, and for that we’re grateful. And as a proud mum and dad, it never hurts when you hear people tell you openly how beautiful or well-behaved they think your children are, even if you disagree fairly strongly with the second statement!
Glaringly obvious is how different we are from the locals on this trip. Not only in terms of (vastly) different cultures, but also in material wealth. We have been able to video more travellers for our happiness project (see earlier post from Costa Rica) than the locals, and I suspect that has a lot to do with culture. But also, what allows us to spend less on a daily basis travelling than we did in London is the flip side of the coin that has people living on amounts here that we can scarcely conceive of. And that’s after taking into account the local cost of living. Some understandably try to abuse that differential, but most just ignore it (at least as far as we can see) and just strike up a conversation interested in who we are and what our world looks like.
To date, we’ve only met one other family on a big trip, Marie, Patrice and their two young ones (big hello if you’re reading this!). I know we have been fortunate financially to be able to do this trip (which ironically is costing us less than living in London), but that on it’s own can’t explain how few families are doing this. Maybe we all get more risk averse and put up barriers to this kind of ambition when we ‘settle down’.
Most importantly, every day we think how lucky we are to be doing this. That it’s once in a lifetime so far, but having done it once, that it will not be once in a lifetime by the time we die. The barrier that has us thinking this is too difficult to do has been irreparably breached. And even if it’s just to make the most of school holiday time as a bare minimum, the years of 2 to 4 week per annum holiday thinking are over. And as much as I am grateful for what we are doing, and as much as we are fortunate to be doing this, I strongly believe a lot more families could be doing this than currently are.

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  1. gareth says:

    Hey buddy. As one of the infamous “Twickenham 2” (we are innocent!) so pleased that you have proved us wrong on the volunteering! Great blog ….missing you all! All our love to your clan…

  2. Lucky says:

    What an amazing adventure you are having including the delights of a double buggy – I feel so jealous and wish we could do the same, one day maybe when they boys are a bit older and can appreciate it all.

    Enjoy your trip it sounds awesome.

  3. The Rudie’s says:

    Helping families make money is what this 32 year old company does.

    https://www.NothingLessThanTheBest.com

    If you have a website, they increase your sales.

    If you don’t have a website, you can earn a living simply by referring people to websites.

    Either way, you win.

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The Bolivian Diaries
Bolivian Elvis the Salt Plains Guard

Crosses and miniature shrines pepper the side of the road from La Paz to Uyuni here in Bolivia. Each was planted by the family of someone who died along this very straight road, usually killed by a lorry overtaking a car in the opposite direction and not bothering to see if there were oncoming cars. A stretch of road this straight shouldn’t have one hundredth of the deaths that it has on it. But there is much about Bolivia that suggests that other people’s lives are not as valued as they should be.

Our driver as we make our way off the road and into the desert is Jaime, who remembers October 1967 and the “assassination” of Che Guevara by the army and the CIA. We have all our luggage and our four kids crammed into this Toyota 4×4, which feels like a reinforced bubble encapsulating our entire existence. Together we are making our way across the poorest country in South America, which is paradoxically resplendent in mineral wealth. Actually, no real paradox. Like many countries, much of the wedge between the natural wealth and the man with his hands in the bin scavenging for scraps is called corrupt bureaucracy and government. The random roadblocks in this stretch of road where you pay 2 Bolivianos (about 20p) to the policeman on guard are pointless and seem innocuous enough. But with about a thousand cars a day going through, that’s a not insignificant amount of money changing hands at this toll, especially with Bolivian cost of living. The pyramid starts here, with every local chief taking a slice of the proceeds for all the policemen under his watch, and his chief doing likewise.

We had entered Bolivia by bus, with a short walk just across the border, crossing from Puno into Copacabana. This Copacabana has none of the luxury associated with its namesake in Brazil. It’s rough and real, resplendent with wild dogs and hustlers for the local hostels. For a tiny effort we found a basic but comfortable hotel with very friendly service (Hotel Mirador) for the same price as the hustlers were demanding for cramped hostels.

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Copacabana serves as a stopping point for crossing into lake Titicaca and the Isla del Sol, where we stayed 2 nights. Two booths with Internet connectivity on the whole island. This served as a precursor to going into the Salar de Uyuni a couple of days later, with no Internet and no phones (fixed or mobile). However, like the Salar, the views on this island are spectacular. We stayed at the Inti Kala hotel, magnificently perched at the high end of town, and overlooking a bay and several island inlets into the clearest blue sea. And again paid peanuts for a family of 6.

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Bolivia seems to specialise in magnificent views. Coming into La Paz a couple of evenings later, the lights in the valley in which Bolivia’s capital is nestled had us spellbound on the bus. The boys loved our hostel there, with its lax attitude that had them up in the bar necking Sprites, and the free all-you-can-eat pancakes in the morning.

It was from there that we set off on our trek from La Paz into the salt plains of Uyuni. Entering the plains, there is a small shack where a guard checks people going in, and takes an entrance fee. In full military uniform, he had a shiny blue guitar for company. Is this where Elvis ended up?

The library image we use at the top of this blog is of these plains, and I thought it was touched up with Photoshop to get the colours. But I discovered it wasn’t. So many lakes in the 4000+ metre high stretch of the Andes that we are in have impossibly green, blue and red colours. Light and local chemical composition have their roles to play in this. Others are pink with thousands of resting flamingos. And that’s not to mention the weird rock formations that with a very limited imagination have you seeing faces, animals and bodies within their structure. Or indeed the Dali desert, with sporadic outcrops of rock that paint a surreal landscape. Or the crowning jewel, the vast plains of endless white salt, punctuated by islands with pre-historic looking cactuses, and with some of the most luxurious hotels we saw in Bolivia, which happened to be made of salt. There are many points in this trip that are carving their way into our long-term memory. Fortunately and coincidentally, I discovered how to (over?) use the landscape photography capability of our Sony camera at this point.

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This is a tough ride to do with a young family. Seven different hotels in ten days with an awful lot of driving each day is tough for them, and is a high price to pay for admittedly unique natural scenery. We have to recharge the Nintendo DSes every night, as it is the only way they can keep partially quiet during the hours of driving. Paola and I are fine with conversation and the scenery, but four sub ten-year old children are not so easily kept sane. When we stop, creating new rock formations or running through ice-grass releases some pent up energy. And watching Jaime overtake other jeeps makes for a live Mario Karts game in their imagination.

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In fact, anyone wanting to do this trip could do far worse than contact Jaime, this 60 odd year old veteran of the plains who seems to know everyone and everywhere, and injects adrenalin with his safe but fast driving. I was teaching my son Omar the meaning of the word ‘resourceful’ a couple of days back, and he got to see the word in action today. Just after some fun driving through a stream, the accelerator cable snapped. Left with an impotent accelerator pedal, Jaime jammed a stone in the engine to keep us going at low speed for about a kilometre until we got to the next village. There, after some below-the-breath gentle swearing, he found some unused cable hanging off an old building which he deftly swiped, skinned and inserted in place of the broken accelerator cable, and off we went again.

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I’m not sure where the overall Bolivian experience will finally sit in our memories in a few years. I do know that its scenery was unique and breathtaking, but we never really managed to connect with her people as we had elsewhere in Latin America. Maybe the divide is just too big for us to bridge easily.

Leaving the plains

We left Bolivia as we came into it. Walking across the border to Argentina. Our excitement probably reflecting both how much we have been looking forward to Argentina as well as relief at moving on. And the excitement was tempered, ever so briefly, by a blockade of Argentinians who stopped us from crossing the border, wielding placards with photos of (it’s that man again) Che Guevara.

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Choices

Bruised knee, police badge, and wallet

Today, my wallet was stolen on the tube. For the first time in four months of travel, after we passed through countries all poorer than Argentina, it was on the underground in Buenos Aires that a man with chinos and brown suede brogues finally brought that long run of safe pockets to an end.

Talking about it with my kids, I was grateful for the opportunity to remember that we all have choices. And that much of what comes to us in life is a result of choices we make. We in most of the West are luckiest of all, because we have more choices than most. In Gaza, with the blockade which restricts education, most economic activity, food supply and medicine, not to mention the incessant threats in the flights of Israeli war planes and drones overhead, many choices are severely restricted.

So our man in chinos made a choice while he was on the tube to reach into my pocket and take money that didn’t belong to him. He could have done something different, like not reaching into my pocket. But he chose to go for my wallet. Sadly for him, Paola and I chose to give chase. Paola instantly sprinted out of the train after him, and in a hope to stop her, he paused and gave her the money. Then once I had the kids and the pram off the tube and Paola was back to look after them, I took off after him. With the help of people slowing him down (and after leaping over a barrier in a way that I never thought the extra poundage on my belly would allow), I caught him on the stairs. Also sadly for him, I chose that I would rather lose half my day with the police pressing charges than have him go free and take money from people less able to lose it than us.

I got my money back. He is going to get a few weeks in gaol. The police warned that it would take a long time to go through the process of logging the crime, though the young policeman who was studying to become a lawyer was also clearly pleased that we chose to continue. I was wondering whether pressing charges was really necessary, but the incident reminded me that we all have choices. He chose to do what he did, and should face the consequences of that choice. If he gets a soft magistrate, then so be it and he will be lucky. I know I’ve made some bad choices and got off lightly. But either way, he will think twice and may make a better choice the next time.

So my thing to be grateful for today is the ability to have a choice.

(P.S. If he’d got away with it, I may have been less philosophical, and just plain miffed! That said, if I did, it would have been my choice …

P.P.S. If you want to read about the event itself, here are two reports by witnesses O and A who were at the scene…

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  1. Anne-Marie says:

    Wow what a story I’m very proud of you both for catching him well done! I tried to read Alvaro story but couldn’t loved Omar’s what an exciting time your kids are having – take care though hope you don’t have any more encounters like that! Lots of love to all from Dublin x

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Different but depressingly the same

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Mall in Buenos Aires. Or was it Rio? Maybe Cancun? No, Lima. Oh, wait, …

I have never found the shopping mall experience a particularly uplifting one. And now that we’ve been to a couple in Buenos Aires, I’ve found more reason to hate them! There is no doubting that Argentinian culture is very different from British or indeed Arab ones. However, they all seem to coalesce, along with Spanish, American and others, in the shopping mall into one indistinct sanitised and sterile mass. It seems that that most people in these lifeless places which are devoid of personality aspire to the same brands, the same look, the same lifestyle. That may be a sign of material progress in some places, but it sadly reeks of the corruptness of individuality. Shame.
Oh, and sulking is not never graceful in a grown man.
Rant over.

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La Bombonera – Buenos Aires Alive

Superman shirt under that hoodie?

With two weeks in Buenos Aires, nowhere did I see the locals more alive than in the Bombonera, the stadium of the Boca Juniors, by some measures the world’s most successful football team. And nowhere have I seen more impassioned and sustained support for 90 minutes than in the game we watched them play against Atletico de Rafaela.

A confession up front. I am not a big club footie fan. My shallow allegiances flit from one team to the next more frequently than young women stop at Berlusconi’s table at a bunga bunga party. So you may come back to me and tell me that all games in the second division are like this, but I had some hardened Liverpool, PSV Eindhoven and West Ham fans with me, and they assured me this was a world apart from any European terraces.

And it was really the terraces that were so alive and different. Boca sits atop the Argentinian league right now, and although Atletico de Rafaela were just promoted to the top flight this year, they are already sitting in second place behind Boca. So the game was between the top two placed teams in the league. Despite this, the standard of the game was not exceptional, probably hampered by the departure of some of the most talented South American football players into Europe enticed by the big bucks.

As we entered the stadium, it was half time, and the chanting was in such volume that I was worried and annoyed that somehow we’d contrived to miss half the game. However, it transpired that this was the warmup match between the two reserve teams, and the quality of play soon reassured me that this was not the real thing.

The "immensely powerful and dangerous" Rafael Di Zeo

The “immensely powerful and dangerous” Rafael Di Zeo

After the reserves had finished, and as we waited for the first teams to take to the pitch, our stands came alive cheering for a man I assumed was a paradoxically popular politician, or a local actor who had made it big. It turns out it was actually the head of the local hooligan outfit, a man in his early fifties, who had just come out of gaol after serving four years for involvement in some gang-related killings. His tribe had broken down one of the stadium gates and charged in, clearing a pathway for themselves through the packed stands by parting the sea of supporters.

The opposite stands housed supporters of his main rival, who had taken control of the hooligan troops in his absence. So prior to the game starting, there were rival chants between factions of Boca Juniors hooligans, and the guide to our group was looking increasingly nervous. He had ensured we were all positioned in the part of the stand least likely to see trouble, but told us after the event that in six years of guiding groups in football games, he had never felt that there was a greater chance of serious violence than at this one. It turns out that even the British sports press picked up on this, but it passed us gringos by under the immense spectacle of the support.

On that note, a quick thanks to Matias, our guide. He has one of the best and worst jobs for a football fan. One of the best as he gets to go to a lot of the big games, and is paid for it. One of the worst as he’s a big fan of Boca’s major local rival, River Plate, and has to watch Boca in action (and usually winning) repeatedly as a big part of his job. Imagine being a hardened Spurs fan and having to always take tourists to the Emirates Stadium and you’ll get about a tenth of what he has to go through.

Regardless, fantastic knowledge of the game and what goes on around it, took extra care of my son Omar to ensure he was OK through the game, and a nice chap to boot. Let me know if you’re heading towards Buenos Aires, and I will put you in touch with him if you want to see a game.

Head and Shoulders shampoo would make a killing here

So as we waited for the game to start, we got handed a couple of newspapers. Or to be precise, torn pages from a couple of newspapers. The form was for us to tear some that we would keep, and pass on the rest to our neighbours. Which we duly did. Everyone was furiously tearing the papers that they had kept into the confetti that would greet the Boca team like a blizzard when they came out. It stayed on the pitch in swirls for most of the game, there was so much of it. The sight of it pouring from all the stands as the team came out was like being inside a furiously shaken glass snow bowl. And the singing by this stage was well under way.

The singing. “Boca Boca …. Cada vez te quiero mas”. For three days after the game, the songs were to stay in my head they were repeated so often and with such devotion throughout the game. And I mean throughout the game. This was no take up of the singing when the action got going, or when the fans got bored or wanted to taunt the opposition. No. This was ALL the way through the game. At volume. With rhythm. Over twenty drummers I counted who either carried on throughout the game or in relay. Latin chants, repetitive, hypnotic, trance-like, actually nearly worth dancing to. Brainwash. Almost ecstasy inducing like whirling dervishes. They put you on a constant adrenalin high for 90 minutes. And that was aside from the more than occasional whiff of marijuana.

Like in many religions, the act of devotion often seemed almost more important than the object of that devotion. Supporting seemed at many times to be more important than the game. In fact, there were a number of supporters who spent far more of the game looking inwards to the crowd and leading them in song than watching the game, even as the goals went in. And they were all at it. Men and women, college kids like the ones right in front of me, and men in their sixties and seventies like the one pogoing as he sang on my right with his thirty something year old daughter. It was so pervasive that I had to take up the chant at one point, not because I was a Boca Juniors fan, but simply because of the physical laws of resonance.

Boca won 3-1. It kept them undefeated this season after 13 games, and at the top of the league. But that seemed almost secondary. Certainly from mine and Omar’s perspectives, I know we will remember the stands for far longer than we will remember the game. And I will certainly remember the wonder of having gone to this game with Omar, and the awe on his face in the stadium. Beautiful.

3 Responses to La Bombonera – Buenos Aires Alive

  1. Gemma says:

    Hey,

    I’m really keen to get to a match with Matias, it seems you had an incredible time. Would it be possible to have his contact details.

    Thanks

    • iyas says:

      Hey Gemma. I’ve just dropped him a line – this was now 2 years ago, and I just want to make sure he’s still doing the job (and indeed is on the same email address)! Shall I pass him your email address? I have it as you needed to leave it to make a comment, so please don’t put it here unless you want to be spammed by every bot known to man! Or if you’d rather, if he is still doing it, I’ll email you his details. Let me know what you’d rather. He was really great – especially how he looked after my boy, but also obviously a man with a real Argentine passion for the game.

      And also, how did you get my obscure blog? We’ve only had friends find it before!

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Inappropriate tools
Doctors aspire to this level of illegibility

Sometimes an iPad is plain inappropriate. Sitting in the dining room of our hostel in the Laguna Amarga in the Torre del Paine glacier park in Chile is one such time. In fact, anything with a microprocessor in it. Or indeed that connects to… Well, anything that connects. The view looks so stark, so untouched (though it has been), so pristine and so savagely natural that to defile it with technology feels abusive. And so, for the first time in decades, I started to write a journal. Not post a blog, but write with pen purloined from a British Airways 747 on paper stolen from my children’s notepads. It didn’t last long, of course. My fingers gave up after a (short) while, and here we are back on the inappropriate.

The local books are resplendent with pictures of the early explorers of this territory. Walking around the grasslands here, you can’t help but feel the spirit of those first explorers, and in those same pictures, the scenery in those days in the early 1900s does not look so different from how it looks today. Of course, even our rudimentary hostel is unimaginably luxurious next to their accomodation as they travelled through, but somehow still here in Chile the spirit of those early days seems to be present. That’s not to mention that much of the discovery of the large tracts of the Southern Patagonia Ice Field, which covers most of this park, was still ongoing in the last 20 years.

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I was looking forward to Chile for my own obscure reason. For some bizarre reason, the largest community of Palestinian exiles outside of the Middle East is all the way across in this most southern of South American countries. The community had started in the 1920s and 1930s, accelerating after 1948 when many mainly Christian Palestinians expelled by the creation and advance of Israel ended up here following the earlier exiles. Today, they number about 450,000. So it was only natural that when we went into Chile, I looked for and found a community of expats. In a sad indictment of my ineptitude, though, they happened to be Croatian expats.

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Our seventy two year old host, Juan, of Croatian parents like many of the homesteaders in this area, has made the most of not very much. He was incredibly proud of the bricks that were used to build his hostel, ensuring that he showed me the English ‘Andrews Glasgow’ (ahem) bricks by the furnace. The photos of the area in the most popular local book were taken by another immigrant, a Swiss photographer. And his stories of the many people in the area, none of whom seemed to have been more than 2 generations Chilean, only reinforced the impression of this place as frontier territory. (No less opportunistic was the fleecing to be had exchanging between any currencies here).

Inauspicious sign welcoming the 1.2 cars that come across here daily

We drove across into Chile from Argentina at Cerro Castillo. It is great to drive across a border where you are one of only 2 cars making the crossing. There was a fun gravel drive between the Argentine and Chilean borders, and you can see with the emptiness of the landscape quite how contorted the very heated border discussions between the two countries must have been to try to define a natural line. After a brief fleecing with obscenely loaded currency exchange rates, we move on.

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We spend most of our time here driving around in our rented 4×4 Hyundai. Even among the steep hills and gravel roads of Chilean Patagonia, I don’t have the need to use it in 4×4 mode, so quite what 4x4s are doing in Chelsea is beyond me. The lakes, forests, mountains and glaciers make spectacular backdrops for driving through. The roads are crossed often by Guanacos (relatives of the llama) and Darwin’s Rheas (ostrich like birds). The boys have a great time repeatedly making up nonsensical “why did the ostrich cross the road?” jokes.

Our first sighting of the Torres
Torres on a clearer day

We are somewhat restricted from hiking the vast half million acres of this park as it would be more difficult than we would enjoy to take the youngest around, and the wind if fierce. The towers which lend their names to the place are three granite peaks, visible dramatically from most areas of the park. The scale of the place does mean that when you drive through it, you feel pretty solitary, seeing other cars no more than once every half hour or so. Solitary, that is, if you can block out the shouts of four children in the back.

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The most prominent feature of the weather while we are in Chile is the wind. The strength of it buffets the car repeatedly, and we have to be careful to only open one door at a time if we’re not to lose papers and books from the car. As we admire the view of the falls at Salto Grande, we all duck whenever the wind gets stronger so as not to get blown over, and Paola and I have to hold the two little ones in our arms so as not to lose them. But the view doesn’t disappoint. As the water canons down the falls, it exerts a strong gravitational pull, and leaves you no room for doubt about for the ferocious power of the water that gushes from the glaciers. We leave as the heavily set bikers who have come down in full leathers seem to be struggling with the now frequent gusts.

Cascadas Paine from Above

Cascadas Paine Face to Face

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If it’s not a glacier view, it’s a view of the Torres. If it’s not a view of the Torres, it’s a view of extremely fast rivers and falls. And the latter are so strong that they provide an excellent example of everything we studied as kids about rivers and erosion. As we pull into Cascadas Paine, I run down the bank to get close to the river, running so as to avoid the gaze of my youngest who would doubtless want to join me. Paola is not convinced that a man with my dexterity (or lack of) should be going down, let alone taking the two eldest boys as I did after I saw how achievable it was. They obviously bounced both down and up the bank in a fashion that left Dad breathless. However, at the bottom, we did get to see a close-up of how the river was eating away at the striated rock in the middle of the stream, and I just hope Omar remembers it in 5 years’ time when he sits his Geography GCSE.

Caveman and Milodon

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As I hope they all remember the impressively large Milodon Cave. This cave was cohabited by humans and milodons about a half dozen thousand years ago. The milodon, of which there was a 4 metre high life-size replica at the mouth of the cave, was a (thankfully for the humans) herbivorous mammal, also known as a giant sloth. With not too much imagination, you can easily picture a pre-historic scene of the inhabitants here (with or without a barely fur-clad Raquel Welch).

Looking along the bridge to the island

View of hotel and bridge from mainland

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Bridge as Dali might have seen it

Our last port of call before leaving Chile is a rather plush hotel at the Laguna Gris, the Hosteria Lago Grey. The children were incredibly well looked after by one of the best hotel barmen I’ve met, who found the perfect balance between being friendly and helpful, yet remaining unobtrusive. The four of them sat on barstools munching pistachio nuts (which he was peeling for them) is a sight I hope not to see replicated for at least another 15 years. The hotel sits overlooking a beach at the foot of the Grey glacier, and has a dramatic view over the beach to the lake and glacier. The lake is garnished by near flourescent blue icebergs floating like massive ice sculptures, with the backdrop of the glacier flowing down in a chicane between huge mountains. Sitting in the bar sipping cuba libre on the rocks was a suitable ending to the visit, feeling as it did that we had in our drink created a minuscule and somewhat ridiculous replica of the view ahead. Fitting in that here in Patagonia, you do realise how minuscule and ridiculously small you are next to the vastness of nature.

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Big Ice

Landing in the tiny airport at Calafate from Buenos Aires, the most striking feature is the impossibly blue water that forms the lakes and rivers at the base of the various glaciers. A twenty minute drive sees us arriving at the Che Lagarto hostel in the town of Calafate. We check in with the obscenely helpful staff while the eldest boys hustle at the hostel’s pool table. While on the topic of over the top helpfulness, special mention must be made of Sebas who to the delight of the boys  is the spitting image of Shaggy from Scooby Doo, and more usefully for us, was able to sort out anything from hostels in other towns to hairdressers masquerading as barbers at no notice. Essential as my hair was starting to develop a comb-over. Aware of how much to do and how little time there is to procrastinate, we book a trip to our first glacier, Perito Moreno, for the following morning. It is supposed to be the most dramatic of the Patagonian glaciers.

And it is. Glaciers start to impress from quite a distance. As you approach from far away, you see an unimaginably wide river of ice, weaving between mountains. The scale of it is incomprehensible, that all of this mass is a slow moving and constantly replenishing block of ice several hundred metres deep…


We all boarded a boat that took us across the lake towards the face of the Perito Moreno glacier. You are aware going in that it wouldn’t take much of a block to come off it to send a wave that would probably tip us over. With the approach, the face of it just keeps getting bigger and bluer. It towers several metres above our boat, and several hundred metres below. We navigate backwards and forwards along the face of it, to give the official photographer an opportunity to take identically posed pictures of as many punters as possible, before coming back in to land.

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The Argentinians have built an impressive network of balconies facing the glacier that allow you to take in as much of it as you can as you descend opposite. Befitting a spectacle of this magnitude, our youngest slept through as the rest of us climbed down in the hope of seeing some ice calving off the glacier. Omar and Alvaro, our two eldest boys, were not disappointed.

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Perito Moreno is a rare glacier these days, in that it is still advancing while most others are in retreat. Our meeting with it was the first we had with a glacier, and was also probably the most impressive we were to see. We’ve been fortunate on this journey to have seen many scenes of nature beautiful beyond description. But to see this enormous flowing sheet of ice is not just to see beauty. It is to see a statement of nature’s sheer scale and power.

Which, of course, the aggregate consumption of mankind is helping send into retreat with global warming.

We stay in El Calafate twice – once either side of visiting Chalten. In our second visit, we dropped by the Glaciarium, a museum about man’s early attempts at flight. As if. This is a real visual treat of a museum dedicated to glaciers and related topics. The focus is on the vast ice sheets of Patagonia, and the various glaciers that these sheets feed, and which we have been and will continue to visit for a few days. In common with many of the museums we have seen on our travels near to big or endangered nature, the messaging is none too subtle, and the video that shows the earth self-destructing as a consequence of our insatiable consumption nearly has some of our kids in tears. It does, however, provoke them into asking the questions that leave you hoping things will not be as bad for them as the predictions based on current trends, and vowing to do something different to help. As we continue a few days later to the 16th of about 20 flights the six of us are having these six months…

El Calafate has the feel of a large alpine village in the summer. Except for the ever-present ice cream parlours. And what it lacks in a McDonalds (thankfully) it makes up for in a restaurant that has a decent sized play area for the kids in the back. It is an area that would be well worth a visit also without a young family, as the opportunities for hiking, climbing, cycling and a whole host of other pursuits had us drooling. Some may ungraciously say that we were grateful that the kids were here as an excuse not to do all those things. But that would be harsh. Paola was itching to put on her boots again.

We left Calafate as we came in, by airplane to Buenos Aires. Actually, it was supposed to be to Trelew, but an ugly volcanic ash cloud saw to it that we carried on in the plane out of Patagonia and back to Buenos Aires for a night.

 

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  1. dennis balboni says:

    Freakin’ AWESOME!!!!!!

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Falling Over Iguazu

We book-ended our visit to the Iguazu falls with a 24 hour delayed flight due to ash clouds at the start, and a missed flight due to incompetence at the end. But between these two events lay one of the most spectacular natural sights we have seen this trip. Up there with the glaciers of Patagonia, as like the glaciers, it brought together beauty, scale and raw natural brute force.

We stayed at the heavenly Hotel Jasy in Argentinian Iguazu. The rooms are like cabins, and ours was two levels, with a double bed for Paola and I on the top level overlooking the bigger room mezzanine style where the four children slept. Small but perfectly formed pool, and a short walk to the centre of the town. The children LOVED it.

This part of our trip was unashamedly about relaxing and slowing the pace with the four kids. Of the 6 days we were there, half of them involved nothing more than chilling out and swimming in the pool (with the exception of the ever-present schoolwork for the boys), and strolling into town for a meal. But the trips we took out… now there was something to expand your heart.

Our first sighting of the falls was the immense spray visible from the plane as we flew in from Buenos Aires. You see a large jungle area, and there like a steaming gash in the middle of it are the falls. You don’t fly in close enough to see the falls themselves, but you do very clearly see the spray rising up out of a break in the forests.

We drove first to the Brazilian side of the falls. Due to a variety of timing issues and delays, we had to see this side pretty quickly. Not an issue, as the best views are from Argentina. But we got our first true panoramic view of the falls from atop a viewing balcony. And it was a breathtaking sight.

While in Brazil, we took in a bird sanctuary with a huge array of different birds and a path for us to walk through amongst them. We got very familiar with a few, to the extent that one was clearly comfortable enough to deliver a fairly substantial payload on my shoulder and neck from close range. Alvaro was in seventh heaven with the toucans, macaws and parrots (and found an eighth in his ice cream later).

Having seen the falls from a distance in the plane, we were inexorably attracted to getting a closer bird’s eye view with a helicopter. As luck would have it, there was a helipad across the road from the aviary! And so we got a ride in a helicopter to ourselves – a benefit of a large family. The boys were bouncing in excitement. A dash below the rotors, with a quick stop for photos, and we were installed and taking off.

We had whizzed across the top of a forest canopy in our zip line experience in Costa Rica, and this helicopter trip did not match that for adrenalin. However, swooping across the top at speed and the tilt as we turn to home in on the falls provides a rush of its own. We flew directly above the falls at a relatively close range in loops (video to be added once I have a working laptop). It was an incredible way to appreciate how long and multi-layered these falls are. It had taken Paola and I 43 years before we got our first real helicopter ride. It took our youngest 3 years.

Having seen them from plane, helicopter and viewing balcony, we embarked a couple of days later at getting up close and personal. The captain of the boat that took us to our closest waterborne view had obviously done this before, as his understanding of the limits of personal space was more Italian than British, albeit applied to a waterfall.

Drenched doesn’t come close. We sprinted at full pelt at the face of our section of the falls, and then teased with repeated approaches and retreats, getting a soaking with each one. It was a game of chicken against the waterfall. Same adrenalin, more fun, and much, much wetter.

We continued along the maze of paths and bridges to see many different views of the various parts of these falls (there are 175 individual falls in this range) until the climax at Devil’s Throat. We approached via a network of stilted pathways, some over forest, others over water, until a long straight walk with the roar of water impatient to make its point at the end.

I’ve been to the Niagara falls, the biggest in the world. But they cannot match this for majesty. These falls are higher, and are made of layer upon layer, of curves and straights, and constrained a multitude of rainbows within this curved stretch which is shaped absolutely like the throat of an enormous beast. I would challenge anyone to write a description that comes close to the beauty and brutality of what we saw. Cameras were frustrating, as no shot was able to capture its drama even in picture form. This was one of those experiences where seeing it live is unlike anything you could feel by reading about it or countless albums. Regardless, here are some of our meagre attempts at canning beauty.

This was a place it was very difficult to leave. The same gravitational pull that thrusts the water down with such graceful violence kept Paola and I there transfixed and unable to pull away. Even the jostle of tourists looking for the perfect photo couldn’t spoil it (though it had a pretty good go at it). I yearned for silence walking back, just to try to take it all in – this needed digesting. But four children don’t give you that privilege.

I can fully understand how these falls came to rate amongst the seven natural wonders of the world. There is so little of this planet that we’ve seen, but to imagine six like these would already be beyond my comprehension. Fully sated, and yet teased by how little time we spent in from of the falls when we felt like we could just sit there for an eternity, we moved on.

To the fiasco of the two Iguazus…

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  1. Fiona and Ian from Iguazu! says:

    Hi Iyas, Paola, (apologies for any incorrect spellings)

    Merry Christmas! We hope you are had a fab Christmas day, I bet all the kids were excited. Hope you don’t have too many heavy pressies to cart home! It was lovely to meet you by the bus stop at Iguazu, it was such a wonderful place. The memories are still strong despite the stress of work since getting back home (well for Fiona anyway – Ian has been to Iceland, Belgium and Germany since getting back from Argentina in a bid to use up the rest of his garden leave!)

    I know you are flying back very soon (boooooo!!!!!!) but enjoy your last week or so and have a wonderful New Year. As we you live so near, when you get chance to draw breath after getting back, get in touch and we can meet up for a drink or dinner. We’d love to hear about the rest of your adventure!

    Take care,

    Fiona & Ian

    • Iyas says:

      Hi Fiona and Ian. Fantastic to hear from you. In one week, the kids will be at their school for the second day, and Paola and I will be in denial at home :). So we would definitely be up for a drink or a bite. I will send you an email once we have our feet back on terra blighty.

      All the best,
      Iyas

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